...I never realised that being such a family person would be so thrilling. I knew I wanted it, but I didn't realise it would be so exciting. It's exciting because...I am happy enough in my own skin to find the minute-to-minute experience of average family life feels like the home my spirit should be living in.That's a fine description of a woman finding her better and truer self in the experience of family life and motherhood.
The women whose blogs I read are, in hundreds of little ways, talking about this very thing; the fact that when they're bathing a child, or brushing one's hair, or reading with one, they're in the act of being the person they always should have been. (16/02/13)
So what's the negative? Wendy Tuohy does not politically support the traditional family of husband, wife and kids. On her blog, she advocates instead for alternative family arrangements, particularly those in which there's no father around. Her political focus too is on women doing paid work and for men to take on the motherhood role.
I don't think she realises what's at stake and how easy it is for a culture of family life to unravel. If she finds traditional family life so fulfilling, then she ought to be amongst those who are willing to defend it, rather than joining ranks with those who seek to dissolve it.
These women who advocate liberalism yet are okay with a vague traditional arrangement of motherhood are "unprincipled exception" socialized women.ReplyDelete
Asocial women are less likely to follow liberalism in a principled way and more likely to go their own way (WGTOW).
Basically the herd is saying "Follow liberalism" and most women do so, even if some of them don't like it or feel that something is wrong with it on a primal gut level.
Asocial women of course have their own variety of problems, but that least don't follow the herd.ReplyDelete