What is it that matters for the woman in the photo below? It's not beauty or love or family. It's not a concern for her own society. It's doing what she wants without impediment (autonomy).
Laura Wood has a post on the issue. I think she's right when she argues:
Good men don’t want to protect sluts. Why risk one’s life for a slut? Why care about a woman who is willing to give up nothing for you or for other decent men like you?
That's true for me. When women announce to the world that they are proud to be sluts, then I no longer feel connected to them as part of the society I inhabit.